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Templates special occasion

Special occasion: anniversary.

Guest mentions an anniversary in booking notes; acknowledge with a small gesture.

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Example input

Guest noted '15-year anniversary trip' in booking

Example output

Hi {{guestFirstName}} — saw the anniversary note in your booking. Fifteen years is a big one — congratulations to you both. I left a small bottle of {{anniversaryWelcome}} and two glasses on the counter for you. The {{viewSpot}} is the best spot on the property for a quiet evening if the weather cooperates. Whatever you decide to do with the trip, I hope it's a great one.

Mustache placeholders ({{guestFirstName}}, {{propertyName}}) mark the values you'll swap in for the actual stay.

How to handle an anniversary stay

Anniversary stays are the highest-leverage relationship-building bookings you’ll get. The guest has self-disclosed that the stay is meaningful, which means a small gesture lands disproportionately — far more than the same gesture on a routine business trip would.

The template above keeps the gesture deliberately small:

  1. A single bottle and two glasses. Not a fruit basket, not a hamper, not a full charcuterie board. Restraint reads as taste; excess reads as performative.
  2. A specific recommendation. “The sunset deck” or “the back hammock at golden hour” is more memorable than “feel free to use the property.” Specific recommendations show you’ve thought about the property.
  3. No follow-up ask. The message doesn’t request a review, doesn’t pitch returning, doesn’t soft-funnel anything. It’s a clean, generous gesture with no return-on-investment string attached.

What “small gesture” actually costs

GestureCostEffortReview impact
Bottle of wine + 2 glasses$155 minHigh
Hand-written note$05 minSurprisingly high
Local-bakery cookies (left on counter)$80 min if pre-arrangedHigh
Chocolate-strawberry “spa basket”$4030 minMedium (reads commercial)
Champagne + flowers + balloons$801 hourMixed (reads forced)

The cheapest options are the highest-leverage ones because they read as genuine. The expensive options read as compliance with a “luxury” expectation.

When to skip the gesture

If the guest mentioned the anniversary in passing and didn’t book a high-tier property — skip it. Forced surprise on a budget stay reads as condescension (“they thought it was meaningful enough to celebrate but not enough to spring for the nicer property”). Better to send a warm message acknowledging the occasion without the physical gesture.

Anniversary cancellations

Anniversary trips have a higher cancellation rate than routine bookings — relationships, illness, scheduling conflicts. If a guest cancels an anniversary booking, send a single message acknowledging the disappointment (“Sorry to hear it didn’t work out — when the timing’s right, we’re here”) and don’t pursue the rebook. They’ll come back when they’re ready.

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