Problem resolution: neighbor noise complaint.
Neighbor complains about guest noise; address the guest directly.
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Example input
Neighbor texted at 11pm about loud music from rear deck
Example output
Hi {{guestFirstName}} — quick heads-up: I just got a message from the neighbor about music coming from the back deck. No issue with you having a good time, but quiet hours kick in at 10pm in this neighborhood and the houses are closer than they look. Could you bring it inside or knock the volume down for the rest of the night? Appreciate it — and the rest of the stay we're good as long as it's reasonable.
Mustache placeholders ({{guestFirstName}}, {{propertyName}}) mark the values you'll swap in for the actual stay.
How to handle a noise complaint mid-stay
A neighbor noise complaint is one of the most awkward host conversations because three people’s interests collide: the neighbor (your relationship matters every day after the guest leaves), the guest (their five-star review depends on not feeling embarrassed), and you (caught in the middle).
The template above resolves this with three deliberate moves:
- Lead with neutral framing. “I just got a message from the neighbor” presents the complaint as information, not accusation. The guest doesn’t have to defend themselves before they understand the problem.
- State the rule, not the wrongness. Quiet hours kick in at 10pm; the houses are closer than they look. Both factual. Neither says “you’re being inconsiderate.”
- End with continued trust. “The rest of the stay we’re good as long as it’s reasonable.” The guest doesn’t feel like they’ve been put on probation; they feel like they’ve been gently corrected and that the stay continues normally.
When to send vs not send
Send when:
- It’s the first complaint of the stay
- It’s a reasonable hour for music to be loud (between 9pm and 1am)
- The neighbor reached out directly to you (not the platform)
Don’t send (escalate to the platform instead) when:
- This is the second or third complaint of the stay
- The neighbor has already called the police
- Damage is involved (smashed bottles in their yard, cars blocked, etc.)
- The behavior is harassment-level (screaming at the neighbor, throwing things)
Noise monitor integration
If you run a noise monitor (Minut, NoiseAware), the template still applies — the neighbor’s complaint gives you better social cover than the device alone. Lead with the neighbor’s message even if the device flagged it first; the guest is less likely to feel surveilled.
What if the guest argues back?
Roughly 1 in 20 guests will argue. Don’t engage on the merits (“the music wasn’t that loud”). Repeat the rule once: “Quiet hours start at 10pm here, and the neighbors share the street.” If they continue, escalate to the platform — that’s what it’s there for.